it's a tragesty


i really, really dislike the trope in fiction that only the assholes, the bullies, and the “villains” can be homophobic.  (this goes for any hateful -ism, really, but given that it was prompted by homophobia i’m going to run with that.)

homophobia would be much easier to dismiss if it only came from the douchebags of the population; if everyone ~good~ looked down on it, defended against it; if the line was clear between good person (accepting) and bad person (hateful).  that’s not to say it wouldn’t still be hurtful, but there would be that support there of it’s only the assholes, it’s only the assholes.

unfortunately, what makes those comments hurt is that they more often come from people you love, people you’re friends with, people whose opinions you generally respect - your mom, your friend, your coworker, your teacher…  hearing a kid in the hallway call someone a dyke might make me flinch, but it was hearing my grandma say it that made me cry. 

it’s that discordance - that people who are otherwise very nice, caring, and intelligent can still have ignorant, hateful opinions - that is lost in a lot of fiction.  it’s lazy writing, and - it feels to me - defensive.  by designating prejudice only to the villains of the piece, the writers both distance themselves (only assholes! not us!) and erase actual experience.  you’re not doing a service to us by creating a world where homophobia is only ever wielded by villains; all you’re doing is reducing an experience you’ve likely never had to flat, simplified flaw.

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The First Time I Saw Jupiter
Fall On Your Sword
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I literally can’t get myself to sit through movies that don’t have women. I’m like where the fuck are the women? Why are there so many men? This is boring as fuck goodbye

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just because a movie got negative reviews doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to like it and just because a movie got awards and is “critically acclaimed” doesn’t mean it has to be the greatest movie to you

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Black Milk
Massive Attack
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being told i was smart and above average from a young age was probably one of the worst things to happen to me because now i have a complex and question my entire existence when i dont excel at something right away

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Last night we camped out on a giant disc structure on top of a mountain that overlooks all of Los Angeles county. It was a good night.


Last night we camped out on a giant disc structure on top of a mountain that overlooks all of Los Angeles county. It was a good night.


*talking to myself as I wobble up the stairs* you are sober and in control of the situation

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